That you would resent someone who has been trying less time than me telling me "I know how you feel..."
That DH would be overly concerned that our BD positions were the most effective ones!
That you would become NUMB to the wonderful world around me that youI already have (DH, DD, family, friends, dogs, fun, etc)!
That DH would be overly concerned that our BD positions were the most effective ones!
That you would become NUMB to the wonderful world around me that youI already have (DH, DD, family, friends, dogs, fun, etc)!
That you would become addicted to POAS and not sleep at night because you couldn't wait to POAS in the morning!
That you would be so sad, and ashamed.
That you would learn to speak in code (Ex. I checked Cm which was EWCM but when I will POAS who knows, dh won't let me for fear of BFN)
That when AF showed up you would feel broken and disfunctional.
That your friendships with your real life girlfriends would suffer because they got pregnant after being off the pill for 3 weeks.
That this would be, by far, one of the hardest things you will ever have to go through.
That you HAVE to have sex even though you don't feel like it, but because your FM says high or peak.
That people would pity you and feel sorry for you.
That you would meet such wonderful group of people that you can share my sorrow, frustration and fears with.
That you would be going to a psychic to find out if there was a baby in my future
That you would dream about taking my temperature and be disappointed if you woke up at 3am and it wasn't time yet.
That you would stop fantasizing about having a baby because it stopped making me happy.
That you would buy herbs and otc creams like vitex and progest, use them for two days, and then chicken out.
That you would hear well-meaning questions like: "Have you thought of taking your temperature?" (and this is after 20 months TTC...)
That your brother, who started TTC at the same time you did and whose wife got PG three months later, would go on and on telling me how tough and tiring life with a baby is, and then finish with: "You have no idea what it's like!"
That the two little words of "just relax" uttered by everyone you know would enfuriate me beyond belief.
That someone would suggest adoption to you in order to get pregnant (because it happened to a friend of theirs) before you had even had any testing done.
That you would have to schedule a BD session so DH could do it in a cup a few days later.
That you would have to help DH do it in a cup.
That your friends who started TTC #1 around the same time you did would already be pregnant with #2 before you get pregnant with #1.
That you wouldn't be able to attend my friend's babies 1st birthday parties because of the quesiton, "So, when are ya'll going to have children."
That the people around you would become more insensitive as time goes on. "It is so hard having a new baby, you just wouldn't understand." or "Be happy you're not tied down."
That you would watch a Baby Story every day... only to cry every day.
That it puts this much strain on a marriage.
That you spent years trying not to get pregnant, and praying for my period. Now you can't seem to lose the witch!
It's good to know you am not alone.
That you would have to listen to people complain about their children as if they were burdens while a child is the one thing in the world I want the most. Also, they sound as if they are trying to talk you out of having kids, like it is the absolute worst thing that could ever happen to you.
That being overweight would cause people to ask when your due, which in turn could cause you to cry.
That you would yell at commercials on the TV (that "having a baby changes everything" one really gets to me. you can't watch it without snapping "So does not having one.")
That you would have to stop watching Birth Day and A Baby Story (two shows you love) because it just hurts too much.
That every girl should go to the gyn as soon as she gets AF the first time. If you had, you would have been diagnosed with PCOS a lot faster.
That a friend would hid and ignore her own pregnancy to try to keep you from being upset.
That sex does NOT ALWAY equal pregnancy or STD every time
That your body has its own mind.
That you would be keeping it a secret from everyone.
That you would cry your eyeballs out b/c AF showed.
That you would be jealous when everyone around you get pregnant including your 16yo cousin.
That you would tell everyone you're not ready for a child when they ask what your waiting for.
Life as you know it will be interrupted for two weeks.
That the broken heart you feel each month that is equal to the pain you feel when you lose a loved one.
That all of a sudden nursing other people's babies becomes a depressing NOT joyful feeling
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